In today's day and age”No” must mean “No”. I don't care about your politics, but just look at what happened to Kavanaugh when he went for his hearing; a man was dragged through the mud and slandered based solely on a statement of an event that may or may not have occurred 40 years ago without a shred of evidence. If that's not enough to convince you to not play with a “No” then you deserve what's going to happen to you sooner or later, and it will be bad.
I live a different life style than many, dominance and submission. My submissives can say “No" all they want and I won't listen and don't have to, but I have a contract signed and witnessed by two other people to help protect me. Additionally, I vet my subs, get to know them, build trust and those things before we start pushing consent boundaries, wich are never really pushed by the way, it just looks that way. Also, they have their code words that when said must be obeyed or I'm in violation of the contract.
“NO” is nothing to play with. A woman who plays such games should be avoided, it's simply to dangerous and damaging. However, it's not uncommon, in fact rape is the most common fantasy among women. Probably because women are largly sexually repressed accross most cultures. Rape fanatsies allow the woman to enjoy the sexual pleasure while redirecting the blame to the partner. Guess wrong though and you'll be a sex offender for the rest of your life! Make her learn to ask for what she wants, it's more fun anyway. If the idea of a woman resisting you and pleading “no” excites you then look towards the BDSM or D/s life style, but do your homework and find a mentor so as not to make the rest of us Ds look like duchebags.